The much-lauded p-spot is the source of tons of fun and better orgasms! Here to find out how to play? We’ve got you covered below.
DISCOVER THE P-SPOT
WHAT IS THE PROSTATE, ACTUALLY?
The prostate is a small gland that produces seminal fluid, which is part of what semen is made of.
AND IT’S IN MY BUTT?
Not exactly, but if you put a finger or toy in your butt and press toward your belly, about two inches in, you can feel it. It will have a slightly rougher texture than the rest of your ass. You may even be able to feel it by pressing on your perineum, the area between the balls and the butthole.
WHY WOULD I WANT TO DO THAT?
Because it’s fun! Lots of people find that massaging the prostate feels amazing, on its own or in combination with other sensations, like blowjobs. You may experience deeper, more intense orgasms from prostate play. Some people even have multiples! Also, regular prostate massage is great for your health.
I’M STRAIGHT. DOESN’T PROSTATE STIMULATION MAKE YOU GAY?
It’s not a magic button. If you’re not gay before you touch your prostate, you won’t be gay after. You’ll just be a straight dude who has better sex than he used to.
I WANT THAT! WHERE DO I START?
Try exploring your prostate solo, or recruit a lucky partner. Use lots of lube. Start with a finger or a small toy, get comfortable and turned on, and go for it! Discover what sensations feel best: firm massage, circling, tapping, vibration. Have FUN!
GIVE YOUR ASS WHAT IT WANTS
VIBRATION
You love your vibrator, and so will your butt. The DUKE prostate vibrator stimulates two hotspots at the same time: your perineum AND your prostate. But even a little vibration around the anus during foreplay can kick you sex into high gear.
PLUGGING ONE IN
Perhaps the most versatile of all butt toys, the humble butt plug gives you an extra boost while you masturbate, have sex with a partner, or even do your grocery shopping (No one needs to know but you). Try the BOOTIE for a plug that hits your prostate or the BOOTIE RING for a combination cock ring/butt plug.
BENDING OVER
Whether your partner is packing a factory-installed cock or a strap-on, very few things match the intimacy and pleasure of anal sex. Take turns choosing your favorite positions! If you don’t have a partner around, you can totally use a curved dildo like the LIMBA FLEX solo.