SEX TIPS

You spiked the eggnog and you’re all dressed up in your sexy elf costume. Now, how can you and/or your partner embrace the holiday spirit…in bed? Read on to see five holiday sex positions that are totally realistic and that you should definitely try at home.
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Canadian drag queen Tynomi Banks knows that sex appeal is all about confidence. Hear how she reacts when men approach her, the story of her and Bobby’s friendship, and how she uses apps like Grindr and SCRUFF in this week’s episode. Plus, hear Bobby and Gabrielle talk about who they were in high school!
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You already know how to make yourself feel good. Now, how about making yourself feel amazing? Most people haven’t tried the masturbation techniques for men in this post. Check out the guide from from guest writer Dainis Graveris, Managing Editor of the blog Sexual Alpha.
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Abstinence pledges, conversion therapy, and sexual shame all have roots in purity culture. In this episode, sex educator Erica Smith deconstructs the toxic messages sent by fundamentalist churches, and how ex-evangelical queer people are the toughest folks she knows.
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Why is it so hard to find a top in the queer community, and what stereotypes do we attach to topping and bottoming? In this episode, Bobby and Gabrielle reflect on tops—and their own internalized phobias—with fellow sex educator Tuck Malloy.
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