Anne Hodder-Shipp smiling at camera Fun Factory Modern Love Languages Blog

All month, we’ve given you solo play suggestions based on the five love languages named by Gary Chapman. Now that we’re on the fifth and final love language, we should be hitting the brakes on the personalized masturbation tips. That’s not what anyone wants, though, so we sought out some more love languages.

Anne Hodder-Shipp, a certified sex educator and relationship coach, picks up where Chapman left off. Her eBook, Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love, is based on six years of client work. It’s also inclusive of queer and trans people and mindful of the meaningful relationships people have with themselves, which isn’t Chapman’s focus, to put it mildly.

So, are you intrigued? Horny? Both? See a sneak peek what Hodder-Shipp has to say about her updated love languages in the workshop below, recorded exclusively for FUN FACTORY. If her ideas inspire you, you can use them to guide your next great solo play sesh.

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